TVXQ, Five treasures & Jaypark are absolutely ♥
Date: Monday, July 19, 2010 Time: 7:39 AM Topic : Friends
Now we all love making new friends, don't we? How about our old ones, the ones who stood by us during the hard times or sucky times? We don't even appreciate their presence anymore, when once, we would do everything together which includes like buying the same item of the same design. Sometimes we put them into the back of our heads and leave them hanging there. I don't know anymore, are we all really like that? Once we know someone better or someone whom we can click with more, we tend to forget how lovely are our friends whom we know longer? Negligible? Much. But well, these all goes to shows that nothing is forever, nothing is for eternity till you die. Even family ties, what lasts on earth now? Nothing. Relationships ends, Friendship ends, Family-ship ends. We all wouldn't even remember those wonderful times we had with our friends, until we get bored/betrayed/sick of our newly-made friends and we all need a breather. Have we all forgotten about how fun it could be? Or how well we know each other that we could practically order drinks for one another without making a mistake? Quoting Samantha from SATC, "Women are for friendship, and men are for fucking" Is it really true that only females can be friends? Is it true that we can't keep a platonic friendship between a man and a woman without sleeping together? It all makes us wonder. We do claim that we don't like our best guy friends, but is it true that they don't make our heart skip a beat when they say "i love you", or is it true that it doesn't hurt your heart a little to see him getting attached and forgetting all about you? In my case, I cannot deny this issue. Yes, there would be a phase where we would start liking our best guy friends. But, we would end up being best friends only because we get to know way too much about them, and getting repelled by some of their habits. OR, the feelings can be mutual but we prefer to maintain it in a best-friend way. After the "i like you" part, obviously what comes next would be just friends stage. How often do us humans write about this topic and ends up contradicting themselves much? So often that we can't even fathom. So basically, this is me being really truthful here. Ok I'm really exhausted. From retrieving data from my harddisk to making my laptop a spaceless one to watching Ugly Betty & Sex & the City til night time, it makes me dizzy right. |